Kinktionary: Bondage
Daniele Devoti / flickrOne of the words referenced in the acronym “BDSM“.The consensual restriction of a person’s movement.Most bondage enthusiasts use rope to bind their “victims”, but you can use...
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found here – no I’m not preaching to you, that’s just where I found it.One of the words referenced in the acronym “BDSM“.Discipline, as it pertains to BDSM, is the practice of training the...
View ArticleKinktionary: Domination
found here – if you are or know the photographer, please let me know so I can give proper credit.One of the words referenced in the acronym “BDSM“.To dominate is to rule, govern, or control....
View ArticleKinktionary: Submission
found here – if you are or know the photographer, please let me know so I can give proper creditOne of the words referenced in the acronym “BDSM“.To submit is to give up control. The act of submission,...
View ArticleKinktionary: Sadism
from DreamsOfSpanking.com – See full vid here.One of the words referenced in the acronym “BDSM“.Sadism is gaining pleasure, sexual or otherwise, from seeing someone else in pain and/or causing that...
View ArticleKinktionary: Masochism
You can find the vid to go with this image at DeviceBondage.comOne of the words referenced in the acronym “BDSM“.Masochism is gaining pleasure, sexual or otherwise, from having pain inflicted on your...
View ArticleKinktionary: Consent
Consent, literally defined, is permission. In a BDSM setting, consent is the only thing separating sadomasochism from assault.Consent is required for each and every act in a play session, sex, any...
View ArticleKintionary: SSC
You can buy this (from someone else) here.SSC is one of a number of acronyms that are used as guidelines, of sorts, for BDSM play. Here’s how it breaks down:S – Safe – Playing safely means identifying...
View ArticleKinktionary: RACK
RACK is one of a number of acronyms that are used as guidelines, of sorts, for BDSM play. Here’s how it breaks down:R-A – Risk-Aware – Risk-aware, simply put, means that you’ve identified the risks...
View ArticleKinktionary: Consent to Non-Consent
In February, we defined consent thusly:“Consent, literally defined, is permission. In a BDSM setting, consent is the only thing separating sadomasochism from assault.Consent is required for each and...
View ArticleKinktionary: Hard Limits
Hard limits are things that you absolutely will not do, period, end of sentence, no matter what. They are things that no one should try to coerce or force you into doing (unless you’re into that sort...
View ArticleKinktionary: Soft Limits
Soft limits can be things you’ve never done, things that you don’t really like (but are willing to do anyway), or boundaries that you’re willing to push. Just like hard limits, these can be anything...
View ArticleKinktionary: Safe Word
The need for a safe word is a matter of debate around the kink forums. Some are vehemently against them, while others adamantly insist that people shouldn’t play without a safe word.A ‘safe word’ is a...
View ArticleKinktionary: Power Exchange
found herePower exchange is exactly what it sounds like. Person A gives a little or a lot of power over their body, or life, or mind (or any combination of the three) to Person B. In exchange, (and in...
View ArticleKinktionary: Aftercare
found hereAfter a kinky play session, both top and bottom will often find themselves a little bit out of sorts. This is often caused by the ebb and flow of endorphins and the vast range of emotions...
View ArticleKinktionary: Pain Slut
I couldn’t find an image that conveyed ‘pain slut’, so you get an old picture of my bruised ass. =DA pain slut, put simply, is someone who derives sexual pleasure from pain inflicted on their person....
View ArticleKinktionary: Consensual Slave
The definition of ‘consensual slave’ has been a matter of great debate for ages. Thanks to the recent release of Grey, the debate has never been hotter. Generally speaking, it surrounds how much (or...
View ArticleKinktionary: Play Partner
Jacques Biederer, 1887-1942A play partner is just what it sounds like: a person you play with in a BDSM setting. Generally speaking, if someone is your ‘play partner,’ you enjoy playing together, and...
View ArticleKinktionary: Punishment
Punishment in BDSM isn’t all that different from punishment in vanilla life. In both, punishment is a penalty for breaking the rules or being disrespectful.Generally speaking, punishment is used by the...
View ArticleKintionary: Pleasure Slave
A pleasure slave is a person (Person A) who has agreed to bring another person (Person B) as much pleasure as Person B allows, requests, or requires. Though often sex is a large part of this particular...
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